Good Wife

Hello God!

Thank You for creating us. I feel Your Great Job by every my cells and senses. Thank You for Love we are living in. We love and are loved. Today I am writing about my family. We are beautiful and happy union of great and successful persons created with the aim to grow and enjoy together.I think I am a good wife because I  love trust and believe in my husband unconditionally. I know we achieve our the best together, to say more it is the only way. Together.

Today is a happy day because I have met a beautiful couple who can be a good example how to live together and archive personal self actualization in the union. Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks, now in their 34th year of living and working together, are the authors of numerous books, including Conscious Loving, Attracting Genuine Love, Five Wishes and The Corporate Mystic.

Below some advises from Kathlyn how to keep happy relationship. I know for sure she knows what the next advices are about:

  • Commit to expanding your ability to give and receive (especially receive) more love and positive attention every day. We consider this the one problem in relationship and life that makes everything else worthwhile.
  • Make your connection with your mate your highest priority. Anything having to do with feeling the flow of love and intimacy trumps everything else, especially the daily stuff that’s always going on (e.g., light bulbs to replace…) When Gay says, “Hey, Katie…” I turn my full presence toward him and get ready to receive the gift of his attention, no matter what the content. When I have something to share with Gay, he stops what he’s doing to give me his full awareness (which is full, believe me!). If the time isn’t convenient (e.g., he’s not home), I text, e-mail or call to let him know I have something to share and complete when we see each other).
  • Lead with appreciation, always and all ways. I look at Gay through a lens of appreciation, and usually the first thing out my mouth is a current appreciation, something I notice in the moment that excites, charms or expands my joy. You can choose the lens through which you view your partner, and appreciation is the most magical.
  • Reveal, reveal, reveal. Authenticity is the most powerful aphrodisiac and increases your swoon quotient immediately. It’s not what you share, it’s that you share. Opening the throat opens your whole energy system and can peg your swoon quotient in the most delightful way.

If you have developed unique ways of delighting in your partnering, please share your strategies. As the philosopher Tasso said, “Any time not spent on love is wasted.” Swoon!

Swoon quotient: the felt experience of gratitude, intimacy, appreciation and sexual feelings all swirling together, or, the tendency to almost fall over in bliss being around your mate.”

Thank you Kathlyn for sharing your wisdom. I am a good wife and going to be better and wiser by and with your wisdom.

I like the words from Kristen Houghton: “If you’re looking for the mythical Fountain of Youth you need look no farther than your own relationship. If it is good, that is. The happiest and healthiest couples seem to have found an ageless life in their very own version of the Fountain of Youth.”

 The happiest and healthiest couples seem to have found an ageless life in their very own version of the Fountain of Youth. I hope we will swim in this Fountain for our whole life. Together.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Goddess of Dandelions

Hello God!

Thank You for Love to Live we are generously gifted to. As for Love to Live means an awakening attention and open heart to feel and see every moment of life as Miracle and Beauty.

“The mark of a person who is in control of consciousness is the ability to focus attention at will, to be oblivious to distractions, to concentrate as long as it takes to achieve a goal, and not longer. And the person who can do this usually enjoys the normal course of everyday life.” ~ Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi from Flow

“Csikszentmihalyi describes our attention as “psychic energy” and articulates the fact that: a) those of us who can control it tend to enjoy life more; and, b) we have a limited amount of stimuli we can attend to in any given moment/minute/hour/day and, therefore, lifetime.

For those curious souls, over a seventy year lifetime, assuming sixteen hours of waking time per day, this amounts to 185 billion bits of information over the course of our lives. That may sound like a lot, but it goes quickly, and the quality of your attention and where you choose to put it essentially dictates the quality of your life,” Brian Johnston said.

So the more you control your consciousness the higher your quality of life. I try to enjoy every moments of my life. May is now and dandelions are blooming. I have found a beautiful poem I am in hurry to share.

Dandelions

Welcome children of the Spring,
In your garbs of green and gold,
Lifting up your sun-crowned heads
On the verdant plain and wold.

As a bright and joyous troop
From the breast of earth ye came
Fair and lovely are your cheeks,
With sun-kisses all aflame.

In the dusty streets and lanes,
Where the lowly children play,
There as gentle friends ye smile,
Making brighter life’s highway

Dewdrops and the morning sun,
Weave your garments fair and bright,
And we welcome you to-day
As the children of the light.

Children of the earth and sun.
We are slow to understand
All the richness of the gifts
Flowing from our Father’s hand.

Were our vision clearer far,
In this sin-dimmed world of ours,
Would we not more thankful be
For the love that sends us flowers?

Welcome, early visitants,
With your sun-crowned golden hair,
With your message to our hearts
Of our Father’s loving care.

Frances E.W. Harper

Thank You for this piece of Inspiration I am happy to touch it. I would like to share a nice picture of myself I named “Goddess of Dandelions”.

20130520-212227.jpgI am here Pure Beauty ;-). No make up and no special pose. But the moment was Perfect. I am happy absolutely here. My husband weaved the wreath and wore on my head. So I am Goddess of Dandelions. Thank You for my happiness here and now.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

 

Napoleon

Hello God!

Thank You for today. Today is happy Saturday. Todays we are catchers of chestnut flowers in windy air. What’s a pleasure and beauty to breath and ti think! I am thinking today about Napoleons.

Napoleon is the Grand Name. The first person which comes first is Napoleon Bonaparte. “One of the most celebrated leaders in the history of the West, he revolutionized military organization and training, sponsored Napoleonic Code, reorganized education and established the long-lived Concordat with the papacy,” I am reading in his biography.

“All historians agree that Napoleon’s remarkable personality was one key to his influence. Although short and not physically imposing, in one-on-one situations he immediately had a hypnotic impact on people and seemingly bent the strongest leaders to his will. Second his intellectual powers were unrivaled. He had a photographic memory for facts, people, events, numbers, military units and maps (…) He was an innovator in using the financial, bureaucratic and diplomatic resources of France. He could instantly organize and integrate all that information, generating brilliant insights on complex situations. He could organize his own thoughts and rapidly dictate a series of complex commands to all his subordinates, keeping in mind where each major unit was expected to be at every future point, and like a chess master, “seeing” the best plays many moves ahead.

Napoleon has become a worldwide cultural icon who symbolises military genius and political power. Martin van Creveld described him as “the most competent human being who ever lived”. from wikipedia

Below I have chosen and would like to share my favorite quotes from Napoleon:

Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools.

Great ambition is the passion of a great character. Those endowed with it may perform very good or very bad acts. All depends on the principles which direct them.

If I had to choose a religion, the sun as the universal giver of life would be my god.

Imagination rules the world.  Especially I love that. This words are singing in unison with my soul: Imagination rules the world.

Once I will be able to read Napoleon’s thoughts in his original language. I am learning French. I suppose my dream to speak in French fluently will come true soon. I try to learn every day.

At this moment I can read the thoughts and ideas from another Napoleon. This is Napoleon Hill:

“The majority of people are ready to throw their aims and purposes overboard, and give up at the first sign of opposition or misfortune. A few carry on despite all opposition, until they attain their goal. There may be no heroic connotation to the word “persistence,” but the quality is to the character of man what carbon is to steel.” ~ Napoleon Hill from Think and Grow Rich

And, know this, according to Hill: “The ease with which lack of persistence may be conquered will depend entirely upon the intensity of one’s desire.”

Hill continues: “The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat. If you find yourself lacking in persistence, this weakness may be removed by building a stronger fire under your desires.”

Thank You for this meeting with great Napoleons. I am inspired to believe in power of my imagination which rules the world and to be persistent in my desire to realize my potential. Thank You for today.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Small Gods

Hello God!

Thank You for this possibility to live.

I have just finished to read “Small Gods” by Terry Pratchett. Thank You for this wonderful meeting. I so love the main heroes Brutha, Om and Vorbis that I have seen them in my dream. The novel is fantastically clever. It is a candy for my brain. I will reread this novel in future definitely because once is not enough to understand the depth of Terry’s approach and imagination. I am in hurry to share some quotations from the book.

“Small Gods is the thirteenth of Terry Pratchett’s Discworld novels, published in 1992. It tells the origin of the god Om, and his relations with his prophet, the reformer Brutha. In the process, it satirises religious institutions, people, and practices, and the role of religion in political life,” said Wikipedia.

“Yes. I know. He is Vorbis,” said Brutha. Vorbis changed people. Sometimes he changed them into dead people. But he always changed them. That was his triumph.”

“God. God needed people. Belief was the food of the gods. But they also needed a shape. Gods became what people believed they ought to be. So the Goddess of Wisdom carried a penguin. It could have happened to any god. It should have been an owl. Everyone knew that. But one bad sculptor who had only ever had an owl described to him makes a mess of a statue, belief steps in, next thing you know the Goddess of Wisdom is lumbered with a bird that wears evening dress the whole time and smells of fish. You gave a god its shape, like a jelly fills a mold.(my cursive)

“It is how any true philosopher behaves,” he (Didactylos) said. “One must always be ready to embrace new ideas, take account of new proofs.”

I especially love  this dialogue:

“You mean you don’t know it’s true?” said Brutha.

“I think it might be,” said Didactylos. “I could be wrong. Not being certain is what being a philosopher is all about”. Oh, I repeat: “Not being certain is what being a philosopher is all about”.

I am happy to live today. I am happy to breath now. I am happy to write to You “Thank You!”

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Beautiful People

Hello God!

Thank You for Beauty we all living in. We are created by Your Inspiration. We are Your Masterpieces. Every great persons I have met in my life confirm this fact.

Today is wonderful day. We spent it in happy mood with beautiful people. I have found wonderful quote from Elisabeth Kubler Ros about beautiful people:

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle,known loss,and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen“.

Than I meet another quotes from her:

“People are like stained – glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.

My heart are flowing in honey of this woman’s Greatness:

“And after your death, when most of you for the first time realize what life here is all about, you will begin to see that your life here is almost nothing but the sum total of every choice you have made during every moment of your life.  Your thoughts, which you are responsible for, are as real as your deeds.  You will begin to realize that every word and every deed affects your life and has also touched thousands of lives.”

My brain are immersed in Joy of her Wisdom:

“There is no joy without hardship.  If not for death, would we appreciate life?  If not for hate, would we know the ultimate goal is love? … At these moments you can either hold on to negativity and look for blame, or you can choose to heal and keep on loving.”

“You will not grow if you sit in a beautiful flower garden, but you will grow if you are sick, if you are in pain, if you experience losses, and if you do not put your head in the sand, but take the pain as a gift to you with a very, very specific purpose.”

Thank You Elisabeth for sharing your Inspiration. I am kissed by Your Wisdom and Intellect and I enjoy and will enjoy this ones for whole my life. I just caught the thought we have met for forever and once to share our Inspiration, the Inspiration is in us forever. I am happy to meet you today. Today is happy.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Our Kindergarden

Hello God!

Thank You for creating us and our Universe. We are all Your Kids. We all play in our kindergarden named Life. I am smiling because I think we play in the most fascinating and amazing place in our Universe. The miraculous thing is in unimaginable huge range of colors and differences of our games. Professor Ben Polak says: “We organize the game into players, their strategies, and their goals or payoffs; and we learn that we should decide what our goals are before we make choices. With some plausible payoffs, our game is a prisoners’ dilemma. We learn that we should never choose a dominated strategy; but that rational play by rational players can lead to bad outcomes. We discuss some prisoners’ dilemmas in the real world and some possible real-world remedies. With other plausible payoffs, our game is a coordination problem and has very different outcomes: so different payoffs matter. We often need to think, not only about our own payoffs, but also others’ payoffs. We should put ourselves in others’ shoes and try to predict what they will do. This is the essence of strategic thinking.”

Sometimes the Game can be called “recession” or “depression”. “I may feel down about the recession, but then I can challenge my beliefs and thoughts.Maybe the great thing about a recession or anything out there that challenges complacency is that I rise up in response to it, like a kite rises against the wind. If there’s no opposing wind the kite can’t fly. If there’s no challenge to me I cannot become stronger. I cannot grow. If there’s no weight to lift, the arm cannot grow muscle. So this thing I’m calling a recession has me labeling it as bad. But I can now, if I choose to, (because we can choose our perceptions,) ….I can choose to label it good.

Thinking tools for the alteration of perception: What’s good about this?  What’s great about this?  What strengthens me?  What can make me better because of this?

Perceptions drive behavior.  Perceptions drive feelings. Perceptions drive thought patterns, either up toward the very creative or back down to the self-pitying and destructive. Self-destructive thought patterns come from low fearful perceptions and I can switch perceptions any time I want.  That’s the ultimate in creativity.  That’s every human being’s basic point of choice in the mind. To change context at will.” by Steve Chandler

I love “Play The Game” by Freddy Mercury. This song helps me to change context of my game. Thank You for today.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Happy May

Hello God!

Thank You for creating our Universe and us.

It is incredible how Universe is sensitive to our emotions and feelings. We have a miraculous today’s morning together. And I have got fantastic news from New York Times: “Kinky Boots” Leads With 13 Tony Nominations; Tom Hanks Nominated for “Lucky Guy”.  Yes, it is the real news which have lifted me on the top of wonderment and excitement. This news is not related to my way in straight sense (from this moment “Kinky Boots” is in my compulsory watching list), but metaphorically every words say to me “We are Lucky Guys!”

Today is the first day of May’13. I am writing to May a promising happiness letter.

“Hello May! We are happy to meet you. We are full of hopes and plans to spend you in the happiest way which is possible. Every your moment we live now and here. Every your morning I hear your message:

“Good morning,
This is God.
I will be handling
All of your
Problems today.
I will not need
Your help, so have
A miraculous day.””

~ Wayne Dyer from The Power of Intention

So we will have a miraculous May. Thank you for your gifts.”

“This is the path we take in cultivating joy: learning not to armor our basic goodness, learning to appreciate what we have. Most of the time we don’t do this. Rather than appreciate where we are, we continually struggle to nurture our dissatisfaction. It’s like trying to get flowers to grow by pouring cement on the garden.” ~ Pema Chödrön from The Places That Scare You

As always I thank Brian Johnston for sharing his inspiration. It is beautiful comparison negative thoughts with pouring cement on the garden. I promise to May to grow flowers. I remember that any negative thoughts will pour cement on my flowerbed. I will follow by simple formulas:

Inclining our minds to joy = planting seeds in what will be a beautiful garden.

Nurturing our dissatisfaction = pouring concrete on our garden.

Thank You for beautiful today and this very possibility to write this words.

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We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Pure Luck

Hello God!

Thank You for our lives. Pure Luck is to be born in the given configuration.

“If you’re reading this… Congratulations, you’re alive. If that’s not something to smile about, then I don’t know what is.” — Chad Sugg

“The question to ponder is how much time do we spend on autopilot taking the life we are “doing” for granted? Most of us trudge on daily, seldom giving a second thought about what a blessing it is that our soul has a home in which to live, this garment we call a body.

As you consciously look into the mystery and the miracle of the gift that has been so freely given to you, you may naturally begin to ask yourself, “How then shall I honor the Giver of the gift today?” How you answer that question will be found in your actions — the manner in which how mindfully you engage in using the gift. Not taking it for granted is a beautiful place to begin.

Then smile, and just for a brief moment, feel the joy of having the privilege of being alive. This means no “yeah, but”s or qualifying it based on current circumstances — just synch your mind with your body and allow yourself to be one with the greatest gift you’ve ever been given: Your life is a pearl of great price, its value is beyond measure. That makes you a very wealthy person — and that really is something to smile about, even at the mall.” by Dennis Merritt Jones

Today is the last day of April’ 2013. Thank you, dear April, for your every day and night. You are wonderful.

Today I have seen a magical line: You published 400 posts! Oh, it costs a lot. I know for sure now I can archive everything I desire. I am different because of you. I am stronger and happier because of you. I have completed my commitments to write a post every day. Because of my blog I have met a lot of nice lives, beautiful people and their Inspiration. I love to live my Life. I am happy to live my life which is Pure Luck by itself. I am grateful for the given configuration and the gap for improving and developing it every second of inspiration.

My life is a pearl of great price, its value is beyond measure. Thank You!

I would like to share Prelude by Frank I am playing every morning in finding Inspiration, Courage and Flying in the sky. Please enjoy! Tomas Labe plays.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Pure Love

Hello God!

Thank You for Your Love we are living in now and always.

I have seen a beautiful heart on the sky today. It is a sign to write about Love today. Love is fundamental platform of life where every living creature is a manifestation of the principle.

“Harmony is Pure Love, for Love is a concerto” said Lope De Vega. How sparkling this phrase sounds: Harmony is Pure Love, for Love is concerto. It is a music for my soul. I love to think in musical terms. This words are precious.

We live in Pure Love. We live according a beautiful laws of nature. “Nature itself has a pulse, a rhythmic, wavelike movement between activity and rest. Think about the ebb and flow of the tides, the movement between seasons, and the daily rising and setting of the sun. Likewise, all organisms follow life-sustaining rhythms—birds migrating, bears hibernating, squirrels gathering nuts, and fish spawning, all of them at predictable intervals. So, too, human beings are guided by rhythms.” ~ Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz from The Power of Full Engagement

Beautiful. So, nature has rhythms. We have rhythms. Nature creates Harmony we all live in. The same idea I have read today in “Small Gods” by Terry Pratchett: “Humans! They lived in a world where the grass continued to be green and the sun rose every day and flowers regularly turned into fruit, and what impressed them?” Let be impressed by Harmony which is Pure Love!

Spring is in the air. I continue our today’s concerto with poem. This is a symphony devoted to Spring.

Allegro
Wake ! wake !
Out of the snow and the mist,
In rain-wet wind-blown gauze
Of amber and amethyst,
Cometh Spring like a girl.
Trembling and timorous
She peers through the thin white thaws,
Afraid of the winds that whirl
Down paths all perilous
Where her so tender feet are softly going,
Where the rich earth is awaiting her lavish sowing
Of green and purple and white
In the gardens of day and night.

Harriet Monroe, from Dance of The Seasons

Thank You for today. Today we are happy. Today we are Beauty and Harmony. Today we are Pure Love.

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We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

Perfect Life

Hello God!

Thank You for Perfect Life we are living now. Thank You for Your Generous Gifts You presents for each of us. The most precious Gift is Freedom of Choice. We all are free to choose everything we want.

Miracle is in every choice is always Perfect. Every choice leads to Perfect Life. There is no place for “mistakes”. Every choice reflects our current level of development and helps to understand Perfect Order we live in. Actually we can not understand Perfect Order in full definition of the word “understand” due to our limited perception of our Universe. At least we can accept everybody lives with purpose and by purpose.

Dennis Merritt Jones writes: “It’s noteworthy that the words “destiny” and “destination” are derived from the same root word, destine, which comes from the Latin word dēstināre, meaning “to establish or determine.” In short, to some measure, what you place on your calendar determines your future — you are establishing the rhythm and route your life will follow for the year ahead, so doing it mindfully is a mark of true wisdom.” I am endlessly grateful for my way, for my destination.

I am proud to live because I can share my Inspiration with You. It is unimaginable to wish a different way or destiny if I have this possibility to write this words and to read this words.

SEA AND SHORE

Music, I yield to thee;
As swimmer to the sea
I give my Spirit to the flood of song:
Bear me upon thy breast
In rapture and at rest,
Bathe me in pure delight and make me strong;
From strife and struggle bring release,
And draw the waves of passion into tides of peace.

Remember’d songs, most dear,
In living songs I hear,
While blending voices gently swing and sway
In melodies of love,
Whose mighty currents move,
With singing near and singing far away;
Sweet in the glow of morning light,
And sweeter still across the starlit gulf of night.

Music, in thee we float,
And lose the lonely note
Of self in thy celestial-ordered strain,
Until at last we find
The life to love resigned
In harmony of joy restored again;
And songs that cheered our mortal days
Break on the coast of light in endless hymns of praise.

Henry Van Dyke

I Am. We Are.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!