Good Wife

Hello God!

Thank You for creating us. I feel Your Great Job by every my cells and senses. Thank You for Love we are living in. We love and are loved. Today I am writing about my family. We are beautiful and happy union of great and successful persons created with the aim to grow and enjoy together.I think I am a good wife because I  love trust and believe in my husband unconditionally. I know we achieve our the best together, to say more it is the only way. Together.

Today is a happy day because I have met a beautiful couple who can be a good example how to live together and archive personal self actualization in the union. Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks, now in their 34th year of living and working together, are the authors of numerous books, including Conscious Loving, Attracting Genuine Love, Five Wishes and The Corporate Mystic.

Below some advises from Kathlyn how to keep happy relationship. I know for sure she knows what the next advices are about:

  • Commit to expanding your ability to give and receive (especially receive) more love and positive attention every day. We consider this the one problem in relationship and life that makes everything else worthwhile.
  • Make your connection with your mate your highest priority. Anything having to do with feeling the flow of love and intimacy trumps everything else, especially the daily stuff that’s always going on (e.g., light bulbs to replace…) When Gay says, “Hey, Katie…” I turn my full presence toward him and get ready to receive the gift of his attention, no matter what the content. When I have something to share with Gay, he stops what he’s doing to give me his full awareness (which is full, believe me!). If the time isn’t convenient (e.g., he’s not home), I text, e-mail or call to let him know I have something to share and complete when we see each other).
  • Lead with appreciation, always and all ways. I look at Gay through a lens of appreciation, and usually the first thing out my mouth is a current appreciation, something I notice in the moment that excites, charms or expands my joy. You can choose the lens through which you view your partner, and appreciation is the most magical.
  • Reveal, reveal, reveal. Authenticity is the most powerful aphrodisiac and increases your swoon quotient immediately. It’s not what you share, it’s that you share. Opening the throat opens your whole energy system and can peg your swoon quotient in the most delightful way.

If you have developed unique ways of delighting in your partnering, please share your strategies. As the philosopher Tasso said, “Any time not spent on love is wasted.” Swoon!

Swoon quotient: the felt experience of gratitude, intimacy, appreciation and sexual feelings all swirling together, or, the tendency to almost fall over in bliss being around your mate.”

Thank you Kathlyn for sharing your wisdom. I am a good wife and going to be better and wiser by and with your wisdom.

I like the words from Kristen Houghton: “If you’re looking for the mythical Fountain of Youth you need look no farther than your own relationship. If it is good, that is. The happiest and healthiest couples seem to have found an ageless life in their very own version of the Fountain of Youth.”

 The happiest and healthiest couples seem to have found an ageless life in their very own version of the Fountain of Youth. I hope we will swim in this Fountain for our whole life. Together.

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Perfect Life!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!

We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Luck!

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