Thank You for fair tale we live in. Thank You for creating us with Your Great Inspiration.
I have seen a miraculous dream today. In my dream I met with the Queen Elizabeth. Dream’s book says: to see the Queen means my wish will come true definitely, definitely Yes! I am happy to see the Queen. It means I am the Queen. I am Brilliant. I have lifelong relationships with the Queen. I know I am the Queen from my childhood. My first memory from my childhood is “I am the Queen”. No princess as the most girls dream. I am smiling because of sweet memory. I remember for entire my life, “Yes, I am the Queen”.
I have found interesting article about how important to match skills with challenges and how to find a door to Flow.
“In all the activities people in our study reported engaging in, enjoyment comes at a very specific point: whenever the opportunities for action perceived by the individual are equal to his or her capabilities. Playing tennis, for instance, is not enjoyable if the two opponents are mismatched. The less skilled player will feel anxious, and the better player will feel bored. The same is true for every other activity… Enjoyment appears at the boundary between boredom and anxiety, when the challenges are just balanced with the person’s capacity to act.” ~ Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi from Flow.
This is the heart of flow: We’ve gotta create activities where our skills match our challenges! To recap: If our skills are far greater than the challenge, we’re gonna get bored. If the challenge is far greater than our skills, we’re gonna get anxious. When our skills match the challenge? Enter flow!
You’ll want to get the book for an in-depth discussion on the hows and whys. For now, check in and see where you might be experiencing some boredom or anxiety in your life. Can you see that your skills and challenges don’t quite line up in either situation? If you’re anxious, what can you do to get into flow? Either bring the challenge down by setting more realistic goals based on your current skills and/or develop your skills to match the challenge over time. If you’re bored, how you can add more of a challenge?
If you’re doing a repetitive task, for example, can you see how flawlessly you can do it? Or how quickly? Or maybe both? That’d bring up the challenge closer to your skill and focus your energy opening the door for flow.” by Brian Johnston.
I share my photo which reflects my Queen’s core. I am the Happiest Queen on the planet. Thank You.
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