Thank You for Love we are living in. I feel Love be every my sells and atoms. My Universe is called Love. My lifelong song is Love. Our way is Love.
“You will begin to see your life as an opportunity to share the special gift you alone can bestow upon the world.” ~ Deepak Chopra
“What is love? Your child brain was wired for rapid learning, and your parents were your first teachers. You learned what love is by how they loved you. If your parents were ideal, you learned that love is generous, warm, caring, and dependable. This type of bonding is called secure attachment.
If your parents were less than ideal (that is, normally dysfunctional), you learned that love is uncertain. You were cared for some of the time, and not others. It came with a mixture of your parents’ confusion, fears, anger, sadness, and other emotions. This type of bonding is called insecure attachment.
It’s no wonder that so many of us are confused about love!
The ideal state in an intimate relationship with your partner is mutual security, comfort, and safety. You are open and vulnerable with him or her, so your amygdalae, the danger sensors in the limbic system, are on high alert for anything that looks like the insecurity you felt as a child. This trips your internal alarm and flips you into emergency mode. This sudden reaction is likely to make your partner feel insecure, and they react with their own emergency alarm. A mutual escalation ensues. This is very common in couples with insecure attachment at the core of their relationship wiring.
There are many ways to change this pattern and break the reactive cycle. The brain has neuroplasticity – it can be rewired. Learn to reprogram each other’s brains for security, and you can create a relationship that gets better and better with time.” Lion Goodman, Carista Luminare, Ph.D.
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We are the Winners of Green Card Due to We are Pure Love!
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